In any given economy, there is a groups of people who has to stay alert and vigilant; the Stay-At-Home-Moms (SAHM).
Many moms are likely to be blindsided without a plan B… Everyone must have a plan B. It doesn’t matter how much income your spouse is earning now, if you don’t have at least 6 months savings to cover all your monthly living expenses in any given economy you might just find yourself homeless.
It’s unfortunate but bad things do happen to good people. Mothers mean well, we put all our focus on the home and children. We forget to take good care of ourselves and we neglect our pension & contribution to social security.
We bury our heads in the cloud and don’t face the reality of our lives. That reality is that mostly our husband is the main bread-winner. No one prays for bad things to ever happen to his job or health. Well, sometime these things do happen.
So today I’m sounding the alarm, please WAKE UP. We can avoid or at least reduce the impact of a surprise from happening.
The first church I ever attended was chosen by my parents, I continued attending the denomination for the next 17 years of my life.
The second church I attended was while I was living in London. I went with a friend and I loved it!! It’s the praise and worship that gets me all the time.
The church was fun and full of life. The first time I ever saw young people serving God and making it look cool, oh yes; I wanted to be a cool God worshiper!
So, fast forward many years later, I have learnt a thing or two about churches: Why it’s important to attend the right church for you and not because your fore fathers attended the church or big mama paid for the bench and pulpit.
Who is God to you and I? Is it possible that you know the God preached to you by your Pastor, parents and Sunday school’s teacher?
The first 16yrs of my life, I attended the church my parent chose. I didn’t know much about God, the little I knew of Him was to be afraid of Him. The picture I had of Him was just not good at all. Continue reading
Most people start the year with a set of goals and vision for 2010. I certainly had a list too and I usually end the previous year taking time out to take note of what I was able to accomplish and which ones I will be adding on to the oncoming year’s list.
I have gotten to that stage that I have run out of excuses why I am unable to do this or that! There are no more excuses for me because I noticed that every year I seem to have one excuse or the other. My initial excuse was because I got pregnant, but now that the baby has arrived, I have no more excuses.
Enough is enough, it’s time to grow up and be an adult. There will always be something that prevents us from achieving our goals if we let it and I do understand that live is about seasons but you should be able to recognize what season you are in so that you can set realistic goals.
For as long as I have been around church folks, attending churches and being a Christian. It wasn’t until 2006 that i finally caught it.
I am excited and looking forward to my first mission trip. I don’t have one planned yet but I know it’s only a matter of time.
It all began in 2006 when we started attending Houston Worship Centre. There were always talks of someone going on mission trips or just returning from one. Our pastor, Pastor Randy Needham, would allow them to give us update regarding their trip.
One thing they had in common, was that look on their faces, like they saw God on that trip. Honestly there was always something about them. Oh well, I would think to myself, that is surely not for me, I am one of those that will send people on mission not go on that mission. I was very happy to financially support ministries to go on missions but I just didn’t have any desires at all.
To each person, we forgive for different reasons. The Bible says in Colossians 3:13 (NIV) that,
“13Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
There are so many reasons why it is good to forgive, regardless of what the other person have done to us. It’s easier also said than done! Am sure by now we all know it’s just not cool when you are the one on the receiving end of someone else wickedness.
I know that in the past, I have caused others pain, whether knowingly or unknowingly. I have come to regret the once am aware of, even the once am not aware of; I have since ask God for forgiveness.”
Don’t get me wrong marriage is great, I am very happy with mine but there are some truths to marriage that are not told.
Most times, you will only find out during divorce how miserable the relationship was, even though at the time they appeared like the perfect couple!
I only believe in the Godly kind of marriage, based on Christ kind of love. Not marriage based on status or financial gain.
There are different kinds of marriages out there; you will be amazed that your motives for getting married might be different from your partner.
You better ask the right questions before you do it, just don’t assume that their motives are the same as yours.
Little is written about Joseph the carpenter, the father of Jesus. Joseph represents: A man of great courage, integrity, obedience and great faith. These are qualities one should look out for in a man.
Nothing could have prepared him for the route his life took. Let us travel in Joseph’s shoes for a moment. In his late teens, Joseph fell in love with a maiden by the name Mary, with the hope that they will get married. I guess they are just like normal teenagers in their time, excited about what the future will be ahead for them.
I bet not in a million years did they think that their lives would change the way it did. Just like you and I today, some of the things we had being or going through, we never thought we would be where we are today. Reality is always different from what we imagined; reality is what we all do, not fantasy. Continue reading