Friends Or Frenemies – Part 1

This entry is part 1 of 2 in the seriesFriends Or Frenemies

Today (21 November), I had an emotional melt down plus a pity party. I have had better days than today and I am glad it is over. It is one thing to have an emotional melt down but plus a pity party? That is a sad combination.

I woke up really tired and tried getting ready for church, the children were not co-operating or so it seems. I decided maybe it was best we stayed home instead.

Out of nowhere and without notice, I just felt really sad and alone. I started weeping and I was just down on myself for no reason.

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Friends or Frenemies – Part 2

This entry is part 2 of 2 in the seriesFriends Or Frenemies

In Part 1, I talked about my emotional melt down and pity party, how I felt alone and friendless. Thank God we don’t walk by feelings but by faith. I might have had my moments of pity party but I did not completely lose my mind to assume that my friends are bad.

As we enter into 2011 take an inventory of those in your life and drop the dead weight that are holding you back. Where God is taking you in 2011, you can’t take Lot with you. If God had already taken Lot out of your life, don’t invite him back or look back like Lot’s wife did.

So what type of friend are you?

I have put together a list of 10 different types of friendship, which one are you or what type of friend do you have?

Are you the church friend, Nosy parker friend (Amebo), Agony aunt friend or a Cofidante?

See Bishop T.D Jakes video clip talking about 3 important friends you need to know all about!!

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