Everyone You Meet Is Trying To Teach You Something

Have you ever noticed how the right message always seems to find you, but not in the way you expect? The people who cross your path always leave you with something.  Life is constantly teaching you through the most unexpected messengers. Once you understand it and stop critiquing the messenger, every encounter becomes an opportunity to grow.

Everyone You Meet Is Your Teacher

Everyone you meet is your teacher. Every person you encounter offers a perspective different from your own. Through these many teachers, you’ll come across new cultures, values, religions, philosophies, habits, and wisdom. Gather and use what you need, implement, upgrade, reject, adapt, expand, and tweak accordingly.

Don’t Judge The Messenger

You will meet numerous teachers. Don’t judge the messengers, for they are vessels and channels for delivering the message.  Concentrate on the lessons; they are interconnected and often show up as reminders.

Reflect on the last person who challenged, inspired, annoyed, or supported you. Whether they realized it or not, they were teaching you a lesson. Your next breakthrough might come from an unexpected messenger.

Focus On The Message.

You can’t control how wisdom arrives. Not every lesson comes wrapped in love and light, fancy packages and bows. Sometimes, truth is served harshly, with sarcasm, and with tough love. How you respond to the message determines the potential for your breakthrough.

At this very moment, someone somewhere has the information to solve your problem. You don’t know everything required for this season or next.  You don’t have all the time in this lifetime to figure it all out alone.

“If you want to get somewhere fast, go alone. If you want to go the distance, take a team.”
– Ancient African Proverb.

The School of Life

The Earth is one global classroom, and every chance encounter is a priceless opportunity to learn, grow, and change your mindset and your life. While not all experiences will be pleasant, each one offers a lesson. 

Maintain a sense of curiosity and openness. Remain humble, truthful, receptive, and ready to learn. By doing so, you’ll never lack answers, knowledge, inspiration, guidance, and teachers.

Welcome to Earth’s global classroom, where everyone is both a student and a teacher.

This Is What I signed Up For.

 Throughout each day, my heart whispers, ”This is what I signed up for”, when it senses resistance. I would sometimes say it out loud: ”Yep, I signed up for this!” My children and husband have heard it countless times and usually nod in agreement as we laugh together. 

These reminders often come “when the spirit is willing, but the body is tired.” When I’m feeling overwhelmed, or simply not in the mood to be an adult! 

Commitments can feel heavy when I’m not performing at my best. And instead of running for the hills, I remind myself that these moments are a result of the choices I’ve made. I’ll keep showing up as long as I can meet the demands.

Is this what you signed up for?

This phrase has become a daily ritual of reflection. It helps me pause before reacting, stay grounded, and present. It reminds me to honor the commitments I’ve made to God, myself, my husband, our children, and my community. 

There are limits to my capacity, patience, and tolerance. Daily, I face questions about how best to manage them and show up, one day at a time. 

Life is a daily practice. 

This practice has provided me with valuable insight about myself and the significance of honoring my commitments. It has encouraged me to truly consider the implications of completing a task and be selective about what I commit to without guilt. 

Twenty years into marriage and 3 children later. We couldn’t have fully comprehended the daily mundanity and challenges ahead of us. No one really does until they are deep into it.

I’ve learned that whatever we believe we signed up for is always more than we realize. 

I’ve learned that to fulfill my commitments, showing up isn’t enough. It requires the willingness to ask for help. It requires adjusting and renegotiating, and rewriting the rules as life continues to change. 

And every day, I relearn the same truth: This is what I signed up for. 

Learning Is For Life

Learning doesn’t begin or end at school — it’s a lifelong journey.

You will never stop learning. Learning is for the living.
Learning is healing. It’s transformational. It happens at your own pace.
And, most beautifully, learning is a form of self-love.

Lessons are everywhere. Simply by being alive, you’re already enrolled in the school of life. Learning is for life. Your true education is a lifelong journey!

But here’s the real question:
Are you taking your courses seriously, or are you just coasting through the campus of life with nothing to show for it?

Mistakes Are Part of Growth

If you are not learning, you’re not growing, and part of learning is making mistakes. Mistakes are not signs of failure; they’re proof that you’re engaging with life.

In fact, the most powerful lessons often come wrapped in pain. Once you’ve mastered the lesson, the pain transforms into purpose — your pain becomes your gain.

Let’s normalize mistakes, mishaps, misfortunes, and setbacks; They are common human experiences that everyone encounters.

Aging and Growing Are Not the Same

Remember: aging and growing are not the same.
Growing is a choice — a willingness to continue learning and evolving.

You are constantly discovering who you are, your likes and dislikes, your values and beliefs — all shifting in response to life’s seasons and circumstances.

Learn who you are. Understand what fulfills you.
You are the only person you will ever truly know intimately.
Think of yourself as a living puzzle — full of unique, mismatched pieces that, together, make something extraordinary.

So, keep learning.
Keep growing.
Keep improving.
Learning never ends. 

As The Year Winds Down.

As the year winds down, reflect on the lessons learned.
Celebrate your growth. Celebrate the quiet wins.
Give yourself grace, and look ahead with hope.

 

 

 

This year has been full of movement and stillness, of plans that worked out and others that fell through. Yet through it all, there’s been growth — sometimes loud and quiet, and unnoticed. I’m learning to celebrate it all and to appreciate the strength it took to keep going.

As I look ahead, I choose to do so with hope. Hope for what’s coming, for the person I’m still becoming, and for the peace that comes from trusting the process.

Take a moment to reflect on what this year has taught you.
What did you overcome?
How have you changed?
Where did you surprise yourself?

Acknowledge your progress, not only the significant, noticeable achievements, but also the subtle victories. And the moments you chose peace over pressure. Recognize the times you persevered, even when you felt unprepared and alone. 

Give yourself grace for the mistakes, the pauses, and the unfinished goals. Growth isn’t always a straightforward process; it’s achieved through small, consistent daily practice.

As you look forward, do so with confidence and assurance that the next chapter is full of possibilities. You have gained knowledge and experience, and you’re still evolving – that is worth celebrating!

Cheers to looking back, growing, and starting fresh — with kindness and appreciation.

Your Life. Your Focus. Your Call.

Stop letting the world decide what matters. You call the shots.

I hope you are the one calling the shots in your life.

Think about it. Who’s making the decisions?
Is it the world, the Joneses, culture, or other people?

We can’t blame others for the decisions we’ve outsourced.

This quote by Iain Thomas is one I return to often:

“And every day, the world will drag you by the hand, yelling,
‘This is important! And this is important!
You need to worry about this! And this! And this!’

And each day, it’s up to you to yank your hand back,
put it on your heart, and say, ‘No. This is what’s important.’”
— Iain Thomas.

Life is full of distractions and noise.
There’s constant pressure to conform, to align with beliefs and agendas that may not serve your current season or goals.

Your focus and energy are your greatest assets.
When they’re hijacked, you’re no longer in control.

Your choices and decisions matter.
Be mindful of giving away your autonomy — because there are real consequences when you do.

This is your God-given right:
You get to decide where to focus and invest your time and energy.
Don’t let anyone take that away from you.

When life feels overwhelming, remember what’s truly important. You are important. 

Come what may — you call the shots! 

The Lessons Hidden Within Our Challenges

Behind every challenge in your life lies a belief that needs to be unraveled — a question waiting to be explored and answered. If we ignore it, it will show up again, wearing a new face, in a different circumstance, speaking through another experience. Life, in its quiet wisdom, will always find a way to bring us back to the lesson we are meant to learn.

We often think challenges are roadblocks — detours from the path we were meant to take. But in truth, they are the path. Each one carries within it a mirror reflecting what we need to see most about ourselves. Sometimes it’s our fears. Sometimes it’s the stories we tell ourselves about what we can or cannot do. Other times, it’s the illusion of control — the belief that life should unfold according to our plans.

When we meet our difficulties with resistance, they tend to repeat. But when we meet them with curiosity — when we pause and ask, ‘What belief is this revealing? What truth is this moment inviting me to uncover?’ — something within us begins to shift. The challenge no longer feels like an enemy; it becomes a guide.

Growth is rarely comfortable. Transformation asks for honesty, humility, and patience. But as we unravel the beliefs that no longer serve us, we create space for new ones — rooted in peace, trust, and freedom. And slowly, the patterns that once trapped us begin to dissolve. We no longer need life to keep repeating the same lessons, because we’ve finally learned to listen.

So if you find yourself facing something hard right now, take a deep breath. Look beyond the surface. There’s meaning waiting there — not to punish you, but to free you.

Because the deeper truth is this: Challenges don’t come to break us. They come to awaken us.

Don’t Get Stuck on Who You Think You Are.

Don’t get stuck on the assigned role you were given to make others happy, comfortable, and relevant.

There will be many versions of you as you grow. You are not one person; there are multiple versions within you.

The early stages of life are significantly shaped by family background and environment!

Every day, as you identify parts that no longer resonate with your true self, it’s an opportunity to redefine your journey and embark on a new path that truly reflects your authentic identity.

 

 

Yes, you are more than you think you are.
You are more than who others think you are.
You are more than your race, gender, and qualifications.
You are more than your past mistakes and history.
You are more than your religion and Political affiliation.
You are more than the avatar and persona you present to the world.
You are more than your birth order and assigned role.
You are more than your struggles and diagnosis.

“The first half of life, at least for most of us, is essentially a giant, unavoidable mistake.”
― James Hollis

“The first half of life is discovering the script, and the second half is actually writing it and owning it.”
― Richard Rohr

You may both share the same name and occasionally look in the mirror and see one another at the same time. But darling, do not confuse who you were with who you are.
~ Della Hicks-Wilson

You are a spiritual being programmed with human conditions and limitations. As you grow and gather experiences, knowledge, and understanding, you will begin to transform because life constantly teaches and unveils new insights to you.

You are not what you are going through. You are not all your twisted feelings and emotions. You are much more than the names and labels given to you by others!

Who you are today is not all you can be. You are on an exciting journey of evolution, so embrace it! Allow yourself the grace and permission to learn and grow as seasons change.

Tough Times have Never Met Someone Like You Before

Days ahead may be uncertain, but tough times have never met someone like you before. I see you coming out stronger and better.

Tough times reveal who’s in your corner and what’s in your heart. Cherish the people who are there for you.

 

Every life event, obstacle, and challenge is meticulously crafted to propel you into the next extraordinary version of yourself.

Even in this season, you are being guided, protected, and redirected. All things are working in your favor. You are not alone or forsaken. You are loved and blessed!

The Past Is a Gift of Hindsight

The past is a gift of hindsight, to leverage the lessons learned for the future. Don’t look back in anger at yesterday’s regrets; learn from them.

While we don’t brag about setbacks, learning from past mistakes keeps me humble and committed to growing in wisdom. God has used them to make me stronger and better.  And to think I was mad at them at one time?!?!

“Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” – George Santayana.

The past serves as a reminder of mistakes that should (hopefully) not be repeated. Otherwise, we get stuck in self-defeating cycles and depression. It’s crucial to forgive the naive version of yourself and take steps to become the best version of yourself.

Make peace with the past, live in harmony with the present, and the future will take care of itself.

Don’t worry about tomorrow. It will take care of itself. You have enough to worry about today.
Matthew 6:34, CEV.

When we come to terms with past failures, old biases, and grievances, we learn significant lessons, and our blind spots and recurring patterns become apparent. We become more measured in our reactions and judgments of others, while also being more willing to take responsibility when we are at fault.

 

The past is a gift of hindsight, to leverage the lessons learned for the future.
Don’t look back in anger at yesterday’s regrets; learn from them.

 

When healing from a painful past, avoid re-visiting memory lane. Live in the present. Remember, the past meant no harm; it helped shape who you are today. Hold your head up, and don’t confuse who you were with who you are.

We consistently gain new insights from lessons that were overlooked. The past is not as terrible and painful as we previously thought it to be. Yesterday’s regrets, painful mistakes, broken hearts, and squashed dreams are costly life lessons. Our dreams can live again, hearts are mended, and wounds heal with time. We can march into an amazing future with confidence, courage, and empathy.

If you are feeling remorseful about the past, congratulations: it’s a sign of genuine repentance. It’s normal to feel some level of guilt in the light of truth.  It’s better to be on this side, wiser, conscious, and more aware, than to be blinded by the truth. 

You Will Bloom Here Too.

The thought of change and facing the unknown can be scary. It can make us feel overwhelmed and trigger the nervous system when we are forced to relinquish control in an unfamiliar environment.

There is no life without problems, obstacles, challenges, uncertainties, and doubts. But we serve a God who surpasses the understanding of time and men; through God, all things are possible if we trust and believe in Him.

You’re doubting yourself because you’ve never been here before.
That’s okay. There are many places you had never been before
and you grew through them, even when you thought you couldn’t.
Gracefully, you will bloom here too. – unknown. 

Bloom quote

As you navigate your way in this season you will have numerous chances to quit. Discouragement and self-doubt plague everyone, but you can overcome them by tapping into your inner warrior.

Life consists of different seasons and they are not permanent. A season can sometimes feel like an eternity. Surrender all to God and find your Rest and Peace in Christ. Don’t struggle on your own using the same old strategies that got you here!

As for man, his days are like grass—he blooms like a flower of the field. Ps 103:15, CSB.

Even when life seems chaotic and confusing, it’s important to remember that God is still in charge and you’ve been here before in a different setting. In the past, you doubted yourself,  worried yourself sick, and cried your eyes out. These are familiar emotions, you’ve seen this movie before. And this time you can show up differently. Skip the emotional drama, there’s nothing there but exhaustion, numbness, anxiety attacks, and fatigue. 

You’ve been through the wringer and you survived, overcame, and thrived. You have experience, knowledge, depth, wisdom, insight and perspective. Don’t forget who you are. This season calls for stillness, clarity, daily practice, focus, courage, setting clear intentions, and tuning out external noises. 

You can’t but win! Go ahead and prosper; know yourself deeply, grow and discover new ideas, make new connections, increase in wisdom, succeed, and help others as you’ve been helped.

Journal Prompts.
Answer these questions:

♦ What am I supposed to learn in this season?
♦ What are some good habits to practice in this season?
♦ Who am I becoming in this season?
♦ What advice would you give to someone in your current situation?

Prayer

May you be still, surrender, and let go. May you find rest. May your faith not waiver. May your strength be renewed. May you grow and increase. May you laugh and dance again. May you finish strong. May you overcome and fully recover. May you bloom in every season. 

Even in this season, there are blessings and reasons to rejoice.
You are still here, learning and growing. You are enough.
God wastes nothing. You will bloom here too.

At first, they disagree with you.

At first, they disagree with you.
Next, they mock your ideas.
Later, they gradually come around.
Then, they copy you.
Finally, they are inspired by you. 

Stay true to your beliefs, committed to your daily practice, and focused on your chosen path.  

Your beliefs, ideas and chosen path will be challenged, even ridiculed by others. You must not be distracted or discouraged from being your authentic self and forging ahead. Your insight, knowledge, and wisdom are for you alone first. If you are wise, you are wise for yourself, And if you scoff, you will bear it alone.” Proverbs 9:12, NKJV.

Being ridiculed, laughed at, or mocked is part of the common human experience. It happens to everyone who dares. Don’t take things personally.

You are responsible for the knowledge you have. Stand in your truth, by your values, and pay attention to your instinct.

“Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery that mediocrity can pay to greatness.”― Oscar Wilde

When they copy you and don’t even give you credit!?!? I know you feel that – it hurts! People copy things that are highly regarded. Take it like a Champ! Take it as a compliment. You did that, not them! Be flattered by them. God is preparing you for greatness. And if you can’t handle these petty thieves, how can God trust you with more?

Change is a given: Sooner or later, everyone changes and evolves. Whether others change or not. Whether people are inspired by you or not. Keep on practicing your gift, living out your values. Treasure what God has committed to you. Don’t be distracted by the Sanballat and Tobias of this world. 

Lean into the quite, gentle voice within. Be committed to your calling, vision, passion, and personal values. 

You got this!

Try Again Tomorrow.

If you are tired, it’s okay to take a break. You are not made of wood. The world will get by without you. Tomorrow is another day to try again.

Courage, dear friends for your journey. To get back up again and again.
To forge new beginnings and embrace lessons learned.

Trust and have faith in the One who designed you, prolonged your time,
and knows the end from the start. 

Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow.” — Mary Anne Radmacher

Trust God
Second by second
Breath by breath
Minute by minute
Moment by moment
Hour by hour
Step by step
Day by day
Week by week
Month by month
Year by year
In every season
Word for word
Trial by trial
Decision by decision
Provision by provision
Prayer by prayer
Promises after promises
Time after time.

For a righteous man may fall seven times And rise again, But the wicked shall fall by calamity. Proverbs 24:16, NKJV.

Be resilient dear friends. Slow and steady, in and out of season, day by day, one breath at a time. May you find moments of joy, peace, love, and courage on your journey.

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13, NIV.

Don’t give up. You are still growing. Try again tomorrow!

We Don’t Often Meet People At Their Finest Moments In Life.

We don’t often meet people at their finest moments in life. We meet at the peaks and valleys of life, barely holding it together because no one has it figured out. Be soft and gentle. Be kind and understanding. We need one another.

In a moment of anger, hold your tongue. In a time of sadness, encourage someone. When you are blessed, rejoice and be a blessing to others.

Everyone you meet is either afraid of something, ashamed of something, or struggling with something. None of us, including me, has it all together. But together we can comfort and support each other.

Let’s normalize
– Staying out of people’s business and minding our own.
– Making our anger expensive, and extending grace to others.

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. Colossians 3:12-13, NIV.

The moment the enemy sees that you are becoming serious about being delivered from strongholds and being freed to pursue Jesus, he will turn up the heat of temptation. Be alert and stand against him; however, if you happen to fall at times in your journey toward freedom, do not quit. Stand up, seek forgiveness, and get back on the freedom trail. ―Beth Moore.

Have a good day and even if you can’t, don’t go messing up nobody else’s.      ―Tabitha Brown.

Letting go of the Cares and Worries of Life

As the year comes to an end, let go of the cares and worries of life. You are not meant to carry them around. Travel light and enjoy the season.

Do not panic or worry about anything. God is everywhere and He knows all things.

Instead of worrying, pray.
Instead of stressing, worship.
Instead of being depressed, praise God.
Instead of resisting, surrender.
Instead of giving up, have faith in God.
Instead of talking about your problems, count your blessings.
Instead of striving for more, be thankful for what you have.
Instead of entertaining doubts, hold on to God’s words.

Do Not Worry!

These are the words of Jesus. If worrying is the solution why would He say otherwise? 

Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Matthew 6:25, NKJV.

Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns: yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? Matthew 6:26, NKJV.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.  Matthew 6:34, NKJV.

Inspirational Quotes

“When you are in troubled and worried and sick at heart
And your plans are upset and your world falls apart,
Remember God’s ready and waiting to share
The burden you find much too heavy to bear–
So with faith, “Let Go and Let GOD” lead your way
Into a brighter and less troubled day” — Helen Steiner Rice

“If you want to be happy, do not dwell in the past, do not worry about the future, focus on living fully in the present.”― Roy T. Bennett.

“Worrying is carrying tomorrow’s load with today’s strength- carrying two days at once. It is moving into tomorrow ahead of time. Worrying doesn’t empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength.” ― Corrie Ten Boom.

“Whatever is going to happen will happen, whether we worry or not.”― Ana Monnar.

“Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.” ― Eugene H. Peterson.

May your worries be light. May you grow in peace and wisdom and soar to greater heights.

Dear Early Riser, The World Needs You!

Dear Early Riser,
The world needs you! Truly. Life runs more smoothly because of people like you, and we are all a little more productive thanks to your early-morning superpowers.

I got to lie in for two days in a row because of the early risers in my life. They get our days off to a peaceful and pleasant start. They are human alarm clocks, keeping the rest of us on track. Can I get an amen? 

The world needs more early risers. Our lives are incomplete without them. 

I am not a natural early bird. If it were up to me, I wouldn’t roll out of bed before 10 a.m. We’re all made differently — all beautiful in our own ways — and we each carry our own gifts. Own yours.

So here’s to the early morning people. Thank God for you. Long may you live and may your energy last, and may the rest of us enjoy every extra minute of sleep you make possible.

Show some love to the early risers in your life. You never know — it might earn you a cup of your favorite drink.

Your Life Is Amazing As It Is.

Are you enjoying your life as it is right now? Or are you nitpicking while waiting for your ideal life to begin?

Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.

happinessChange Your Mindset.
Have you ever considered that maybe your life is great as it is now? Could the way you are conditioned to think through foggy and faulty lenses affect how you view your life?

Many people are stuck in a life that they think is a must-have, not knowing that it might be the source of their unhappiness. Change your conditioning and the story you’ve been telling yourself.

Common Human Experiences.
These are things that apply to everyone on planet Earth.
We don’t get to pick or choose our human experiences. It’s an all-inclusive package.  

At the very top of all Human Experiences are Birth, Death, Belief, Failure, Sickness and Pain, Change, Fear, Joy, Happiness, Emotion, Problems, and Nature, to name a few.

Stop allowing things beyond your control to rob you of joy, happiness, peace of mind, health, love, and contentment in the present.

Are you enjoying your marriage?
Are you enjoying your single status?
Are you enjoying the season of parenthood?
Are you enjoying the in-between season?
Are you enjoying the uncertainty of life?
Are you enjoying the empty nest season?
Are you enjoying the winter season of life?
Are you enjoying life transitions?

There is nothing better for a person than that he should eat and drink and find enjoyment in his toil. This also, I saw, is from the hand of God. Ecclesiastes 2:24, ESV. 

Stop making your life difficult.
Your life is amazing as it is.
Stop waiting for the stars to align.
Perfection is an illusion.

Change the way, tone, and words in which you describe your life. You become what you believe and speak. Change is an inside job.

Happiness is not a goal or final destination; it’s a series of subtle shifts in consciousness, awareness, mindset, and beliefs.

“Happiness does not come from a job. It comes from knowing what you truly value and behaving in a way that’s consistent with those beliefs.” – Mike Rowe.

There are many ways to live a happy life. You can figure out which is best for you. The path to happiness is a personal and evolving journey. 

If you are not thankful and enjoying your life as it is now, you are doing life all wrong. 

Your life is a gift. Period. Enjoy Your Amazing Life.

Hindsight Is 2020

Hola Friends! 2020 tried us all on a global scale. We made it, and here we are together again. Some of us are bruised, shaken and stirred, humbled, thriving, in recovery, and still doing our best to show up fully. May we not take each day we are alive and healthy for granted.

In hindsight, everything had been preparing us for 2020 had we listened more to the still small voice within, slowed down, made the necessary adjustments, taken the path less traveled, danced to our own rhythm, become true to ourselves, honored God’s values, etc. The past challenges, upheaval, loss, rejections, misunderstanding, and closed doors, were all designed to awaken our consciousness for change and shift naturally without force. It’s never too late to apply lessons learned.

The way to your breakthrough is through the storms of life.

the way

The year 2020 forced many of us to prune our old ways, idols, and bad habits. To acknowledge our skewed viewpoints, privileges, biases, and ungodly ties.

Personally, I wouldn’t have survived 2020 had I not.

Surrender to God.

Learn to protect my peace and energy.

Simplify my life and return to basics.

Learn to live in the present moment: Take things daily.

Identified my community and became committed to doing life with them.

Live by my values.

Let go of Religion.

Major on doing my inner work.

Developed a deeper personal relationship with God. 

Established daily spiritual practices.

Learn to hold loosely to the things of this world.

Have faith in God’s word.

Know that comparison is the thief of joy. – “Theodore Roosevelt.”

Come to an understanding that Death is not to be feared.

God in His infinite mercy and love carries us through the storms of life. He never leaves or abandons us. He never gives us more than we can handle. And He doesn’t expect us to figure it out alone.

You crown the year with Your goodness, And Your paths drip with abundance: psalm 65:11, NKJV.

Happy New Year! I hope 2021 is up to a great start!

What hindsight nuggets did you glean from 2020?

Nothing Just Happens.

Nothing about your life is random or happenstance. You are wired the way you are to fulfill your calling and assignment.

Nothing Just Happens. There Is A Reason For Everything.

There is a reason you are attracted to certain people.

There is a reason you are passionate about something.

There is a reason you think the way you do.

There is a reason you gravitate towards a specific profession.

There is a reason you are wired the way you are.

There is a reason you feel certain things more in-depth than others.

There is a reason you are drawn to solve a particular problem.

There is a reason some behaviors trigger you.

There is a reason you have the personality you have.

There is a reason you have a proclivity towards a particular thing.

I can go on and on…

Everything is not black or white. There is a depth to all human experience.
There is a lesson behind the lesson and the meaning behind the meaning. 

Your inner work is your God-given assignment.

God created you with a purpose and a plan. It’s your job to unpack the deep and hidden meaning through a relationship with Christ. By spending alone and quiet time with God, He will lead you into all knowledge and understanding of things pertaining to you.

There is a purpose to everything God created, permitted, and allowed. 

You are not weird or crazy. You are wired the way you are to fulfill your calling and assignment. You are unique. Explore, Honor, and Celebrate these things that make you, you.

When you know whose you are and who you are, you will run the race of life differently.

Balance: Know Your Limits.

B is for Balance.

Know your limits.
Know when you’ve done all you can.
Know when it’s time to let go.
Letting go does not mean you care less.
Letting go means you’ve done your part.

The only part you are required to do is what within your limit.
Anything other than that done out of duty, frustration, or people-pleasing may leave you feeling resentful and unappreciated. Let all things be done in love.
1 Corinthians 16:14, NASB.

When dealing with others, know your limits. Know your heart motivations. Respect your boundaries and others. Be led by love. Do your part expecting nothing in return.

You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.
— Unknown. 

The only part you are required to do is yours: that which is within your control.

Remember the words of Jesus to Martha.
But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her. Luke 10:42, KJV. 

After doing all you know to do, within your power, from a good heart – stand. Stand, believing that God isn’t done with the situation. Draw a line, mark the date, praise God, and hand it over to Him and stand and see the salvation of the Lord!

 

My heart is broken. My spirit is weak. I am feeling discouraged.

I’ve always prided myself as an encourager. I usually stay away from anyone who will bring me down. Being an Empath, lately, I find myself struggling with my emotions. I wish I wasn’t feeling all these emotions. I wish we all live in a perfect world. But Feelings and Wishes solve nothing!

I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired. — Fannie Lou Hamer.

I’m writing to you as a Human Being who is deeply concerned for all. I’m not just concern for all the beautiful brown babies. I’m troubled for all of us. Who are we becoming when we turn our eyes away and close our hearts to the sad reality of our world?

There comes a time when silence is a betrayer. Martin Luther King, Jr.

I’ve always tried to live my life, for the most part, law-abiding. I’d be lying if I say I don’t go over the speed limit sometimes.  I even try not to speak publicly about my political views to make others comfortable. I would never dream of jogging or walking at night even though I live in a diverse city – God forbid, I can’t take that chance.

Positivity.
I believe in positivity and creating a peaceful environment. But lately, I’ve been triggered by the ongoing killing of Blacks. And I can no longer keep calm. I can honestly understand why someone would go postal from repressing their true feelings. 

Let all things be done decently and in order. 1 Corinthians 14;40, KJV.

I hope you would find a healthy way to express your views and lend your voice to a worthy cause. Let’s put aside our political beliefs and affiliations. We are first humans, children of God, created in His image. Bearing in mind that we are not all the feelings and crazy thoughts in our head. 

Self-Care
Being still, quiet time, meditation, listening to music, staying in the Word, limiting Social Media and News, and having healthy boundaries are few ways by which I tend to my soul.

Take care of yourself – You’re not made of wood. 

If you are feeling triggered by our world, the plight of others  – May God give you peace of mind, and may you grow strong in spirit. 

Might I add:
Do not add to the hatred out there. Do no harm to another person or property. Don’t take the laws into your hands.

I believe in Love. I believe in Freedom. I believe in Truth. I believe in Justice. I believe in Equality. I believe in Representation. I believe in God. And I still have faith in humanity to do the right thing.

Let’s continue to pray for Peace, Love, Tolerance, and Justice for all.