Some Things Are Worth Waiting For.

Personally, waiting isn’t fun. I don’t want to wait. I want it now, no, I want it last year!

Does that mean I’m impatient? Yes, No? Well, I don’t think so, lol. I like to think of myself as a woman of great faith with total trust in the Lord. 

So, if I have this great measure of faith in God, and I trust Him. Why don’t I just relax while waiting on Him?

Somethings are worth waiting for

Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has
stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has
promised to those who love him. (James 1:12 ESV)

The last time I checked, I am still human, and it’s ok to have expectations.

That said, “Something worth having is worth waiting for.”

While waiting isn’t fun, I know its good for me. If your heart’s desire is important waiting will be bearable.

But know that the LORD has set apart the godly for himself; the LORD hears when I call to Him. (Psalm 4:3 ESV)

Waiting is part of God’s refining process, a test of your faith, character and motives.  Waiting time teaches us to rely on God as we can do nothing of ourselves.

Joshua’s first year was very challenging, he was sick a lot. I had to wake up daily believing for his healing. There were days I wanted to be done with it; I was also tempted to question God.

The medications were not effective and boy did he go through different medications. I spend too many times at his pediatrician, taking him for several tests. Mind you I have 2 other children, not to forget a husband, and my worn-out cranky self to take care of. 

Without warning or notice after Joshua turned 1-year-old, he got better! Joshua’s healing was worth waiting for. It was worth getting up every day for; it was worth looking forward to. Now, it doesn’t seem so long or painful. God is faithful! Joshua is playful, strong, boisterous with a healthy appetite.  God used that season to draw me closer to Him. Today, I know God as my Father and healer. 

Now it’s your turn.

You are not to give up or throw in the towel. Dig your heels in and bear it. Pay the price now to see your desires come true. Put on your big girl/boy pants and suck it in. I have faith in you to do this. But first, you need to hand it over to God. If you’ve got to cry, so be it. Just never give up!

How much do you really want it?

Singles Talk: Let The Real You Be Seen

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful,
I know that full well. (Psalm 139:14, NIV)

I have played many roles in my life. I bet there is an Oscar award out there for me.

I tried to be who others think I should be, it never lasts. I have been who I’m not to make others happy, hoping it would lead to love. In my long distant past, I’ve been the bad girl, the good girl, and the life of the party girl.

Let The Real You Be Seen

Throughout those times I was trying to discover myself. I didn’t know who I was, and I thought being someone else would be better than a nobody.

Eventually, I got real with myself. Once I discovered who I am, the whole shebang starts to fall into place.

Stop trying to fit into people’s idea of who you are, or should be. Be yourself and own it. Nobody is perfect, so stop putting yourself down and wishing to be someone else.

No wonder we have so many broken relationships. Who do you plan to be in your next relationship? When will the real you show up?

The truth is, you may be unreasonable, difficult, high maintenance, fabulous, broken, lovely, perfectionist, sensitive, and a drama queen.

Whatever you are or trying to change about yourself. The right person for you will see past all of that, inasmuch you are authentic. Be honest about yourself, and some of your crazy ways may soon become endearing to him.

God doesn’t put two people who are the same together. He brings two people who are polar opposite together to become ONE. Opposites attract and we add value to our relationships when we are honest about who we really are!

You are amazing and there is no one like you in the universe. Let the real you be seen, and give love a chance.

Selah Notes: God’s Thoughts Towards You

God’s thoughts towards you are loving, precious, of peace, to prosper, and of a future filled with hope.

In a world constantly changing, our God is unchangeable. His thoughts towards you will stand forever and from generation to generation.

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. (Isaiah 55;8,ESV)

There is nothing you can ever do to change God’s thoughts towards you. Only God’s words will stand the test of time.

Remember, it doesn’t matter what anyone else think about you, their thoughts are mere breath, worthless and futile. It has no power over you except you believe it.

 

Bukville Bites: Waiting On The Lord

I wait for the LORD, my whole being waits, and in his word, I put my hope.  (Ps 130:5  NIV)

In this season of your life, you don’t have time for trial and error. Time wasted may never be regained. Do not take another decision without the leading of the Holy Spirit. Ask Him to guide you in all your decisions and wait on the Lord! You will hit the bulls-eye!

“I am not moved by what I see. I am not moved by what I feel. I am moved only by what I believe.” – Smith Wigglesworth 

Many of us are expecting an answer, a breakthrough this month. Learn to wait on the Lord and not man. Keep your eyes on Him and not your situation. Seek His face, not His hand. 

Happy Mother’s Day Mammas!

To all my Mammas, Mothers, Sisters and Friends – Here is wishing you a happy mothers day. You have been blessed with many spiritual gifts and I challenge you to walk in it with grace and humility through Christ our Lord.

You are called ‘woman’ – womb-man, you are born with a womb. You didn’t choose to be a woman. God created you as a woman for a purpose.

You don’t become a mother when you give birth to a child. You are a mother because you are a nurturer, life changer, destiny shaper, teacher, you love so freely, you give of yourself to many, you applaud, you advise, you motivate, you inspire, you are a role model and a mentor. You speak the truth in love, you chastise with kindness in your voice, you endured, you are not self-seeking, you are longsuffering, you are the bridge to the gap, intercessor and most of all you are the embodiment of love and sacrifice.

I salute you regardless of what stage you are in your journey. I love you with the love of Christ, I acknowledge how far you have come. Your courage is an example to so many and I’m cheering for your unstoppable success.

YOU ARE A MOTHER

YOU ARE A MOTHER

To My Mammas

From the depth of my soul – I say thank you. With tears streaming down my eyes I say thank you.  At every junction in my life God always sent me a Mamma.

Mammas are like the angel Gabriel in the flesh. Showing up in my life to challenge me, chastise, love me, nurse me, hold my hands, kick my backside, shake me, and mould me. Through the Mammas in my life I have received motherly love that  “the lost child” inside of me needed so badly.

Happy Mother’s Day Mammas!

Have You Visited The Dream Theater Lately?

While waiting to conceive our first child and my efforts to stay sane while trying. For the most part I kept busy applying some of these tips.  Apart from praying, bible study and crying LOL. I regularly worked on my testimony instead of rehashing  the past and worrying about what may never happen.

Dream Big

I spend a lot of time in the dream theater of my mind. I saw myself heavily pregnant, holding our new baby and complaining of sleepless night. I envision myself on platforms sharing my testimony with other women waiting on God.

I would regularly update my testimony religiously, every week!  It strengthened me with a renewed focus on God.

For we walk by faith, not by sight (2 Cor 5:7 KJV)

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Mom Can You Stop The Sun From Shining In My Face?

As we drove to church on a sunny Sunday morning in Houston. The sunset was high and hot, just how we like it and it’s not even summer yet.

David was sitting behind the driver seat and he said ‘’mom can you stop the sun from shining in my face?”

I smiled to myself thinking this boy must think mom can do all things? Of course he believes mom can do anything, why else would he ask?

I replied David “mom cannot stop the sun from shining in your face but God can.”

As we drove the direction of the sun changed and David settled down.

It got me thinking how much faith my son has in me that I could do anything. Isn’t that just the type of child-like faith that the bible speaks of? If only we all have that type of faith in God, we can move mountains.

For David to have that kind of faith in me, this comes through relationship – a deep and personal relationship.  A relationship based on love and trust.

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Stop Putting Your Life On Hold

I love celebrating each milestone in our lives. Sometimes, if I’m not careful I tend to postpone celebration until when it’s a major milestone.

I have been asking myself lately why delay celebrating life?  Whose idea is this anyway? Why must we wait till we’re at a certain age before we drive that car or have that big bash we have been planing in our heads, or just plain living life to the fullest

I have turned over a new leaf and will no longer wait to celebrate important events and milestones in my life.

Once you discover what makes you happy. Do it daily. Don’t put your
happiness on the shelf. Life has an expiration date. 

Stay Happy

I am going to celebrate everyday since I don’t know how long I am going to be around for. The truth is none of us know if we are still going to be here tomorrow. So why do we keep on putting things off as if we have control over our lives?

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Imagine Mary

The roads of life take us through many paths; while some are smooth rides, others are bumpy and filled with potholes.

The individual going through a bumpy road tends to think they have been singled out for a rough ride.

We sometimes think that no one else knows how deep and painful we hurt. Going as far as thinking that we are the only ones ever to experience the pits of the valley we find ourselves.

Imagine Mary, the mother of our Lord, Jesus. A virgin betrothed to Joseph discovers the impossible, unheard of, never before happened to any other human being. Pregnant with a child, yet not having known any man.

Imagine going through something you have nothing to compare with—no point of reference whatsoever. Imagine having to keep this great secret to yourself. Who can I share this with? Who would keep my secret, secret? Yet, she put her trust in God for the unknown.

There is nothing you are facing today that is new under the sun. Someone has gone through it, and you can gather strength and encouragement from others that you too will not only survive but overcome it.

Your trials today will be the platform of authority from which God will use you to
speak and minister to others.

Prayer
I pray that God, Father of our Lord Jesus, will give you grace and strength in this season. The third Person of the Trinity will comfort and help you in your understanding and discernment.

Bukville Bites: Speak Life

Watch what you say today!

Your words can produce life or death. Words can hurt, they wound sometimes deeply.

Your words can also reward, build self-esteem, create friendships, give hope, and render a blessing. Your words can heal and inspire others.

Speak life today!

Overcoming Parental Rejection.

“When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take care of me.” (Psalm 27:10, NKJV)

There are many forms of rejection in life; some are minor, while others are significant, with a lasting impact if not addressed.

The rejection from a parent is a life-altering wound that is so deep into the marrow of your bones. It will shake your world and turn it upside-down; it will hold you captive, bound by bitterness and unforgiveness (if you let it).

It can influence your relationships and your perspective of the world. After all, if your father or mother doesn’t love you, who will?

The pain from parental rejection can be well hidden for a long time. Emotional pains can be buried underneath many layers, and it takes events such as a death in the family, divorce, or birth of a child to awaken the pain.

It’s every parent’s duty to love their children; however, this is not always the case. Most parents do right by their children; then there are instances where individuals who may not be suitable caregivers have children.

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Let God Be God

How many of us are living with the consequences of our past mistakes today?

In our impatience and unnecessary worry to achieve the result we deem that we cannot do without. We rushed in like fools trying to help God fulfill what we believe God wants.

Hope deferred makes the heart-sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life – Proverbs 13:12

Anyone that has ever waited on the Lord knows that it takes patience, longsuffering and faithfulness ( fruit of the Spirit)

While the journey to waiting on the Lord may not be filled with excitement, it is however a test of our faith in the Lord.

You will never know how shallow or deep your faith walk is until you’ve been through the fire of adversity. There are no shortcuts while we are being tested but we must endure to the end just as Jesus did.

Looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was
set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the
right hand of the throne of God – Hebrews 12:2

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Life Leaves Clues

As we approach the end of another month. Kindly pay attention to the clues life is giving you as you go about your journey.

It’s easy to get caught up in the busyness of life juggling the demands of our daily grind.

Every day, life leaves clues. If you pay attention, you’ll see and hear small miracles happen, and then use them to become better – Bryan Thayer

You will make some mistakes, and as you take inventory of the lessons learned along the way. It will help you to navigate better and forge ahead arriving at your destination in good time.

Life leaves clues. Success leaves tracks. Take notes and take action.

A true account of how I missed many clues

Faith had 2 weeks off for Christmas break and I was ready for her to resume school. I woke up excited and eager to get Faith to school on  Monday 7th Jan.  There I was driving to school, thinking to myself  (Clue #1) how there were very few cars on the road. Hmm, (Clue#2) I thought what ever happen to all the school-run moms? Anyways we are going to be there on time, thank God for less traffic and I cant wait to have my me time!

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Selah Notes ~ God Is An Equal Opportunity God

Matt 5:45a – For He makes His sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust (ESV)

God is an equal opportunity God. God is impartial and He makes all things available to everyone. Faithful is He who has promised.

Bukville ~ Selah Notes

While the world speaks of inequality, separation, class divide. God gives us all an equal playing field thru the power of grace and He is no respecter of persons.

There is no favoritism on account of birth, beauty, or blood. There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus (Gal 3:28)

We have been redeemed by the blood of Jesus Christ and our sins are forgiven. We also have the power to choose (Jn 3:16)

We are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ

You have the same rights, entitlements and privileges – you are an heir.

Go! Be amazing, Bodacious (Bold and Audacious), fearless, stand out, speak up, shine, dare to be different.

 

Selah Notes ~ Exhortation & Inspirational Notes || Bukville ~From Average To Amazing.

God’s Appointed Time

Don’t sit around waiting for the perfect time to do something that you can do right now. It may never happen. There is no such thing as a perfect time; we don’t live in a perfect world and neither are we perfect beings. There is a divine order in place; God holds the universe in His hands.

My own hand laid the foundations of the earth, and my right hand spread out the heavens; when I summon them, they all stand up together. (Is 48:13)

Pray for the appointed time of God to be revealed to you. Believe that God’s will for your blessings is right now. Pray, be led and enter into your season of appointed time and watch God do that which only Him can do.

Your part is to seek the will of God, trusting and believing He’s leading you in the right direction. Life is a made up of many decisions and there are no coincidences.

There is no such thing as a perfect time – just appointed time.

Waiting for perfect timing is an excuse for delaying what is needed now. Pray that God will perfect the time and your willingness to obey His instruction.

Waiting for the stars to be aligned is a waste of time because they are already aligned. 
– Tolulope Ilesanmi

Tolu Ilesanmi

God created time; the stars, the moon, and the sun. He alone knows the timing of everything He created.

You may think your time has passed, and it’s too late for you to start again after that divorce or you can’t recover after the bankruptcy. Sometimes life throws us curve balls but a setback is just a setup for a comeback!

Maybe you had to go thru all of that to fully appreciate what God is about to do. Ask God to open your eyes to see what you are not seeing.

There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven. Eccl 3:1

The Only Way To Live An Audacious Life.

You may or may not have set of written goals for the new year. I am all about goals and making  list for everything.

I don’t make resolutions; I set goals. Resolutions are so yesterday,
let’s start a new revolution.

This time of the year is filled with gazillion ways to hit the ground running.

I have one crucial thing to share with you: Whatever you do, put this first at the top of everything else.

What will make you stand-out, successful, audacious, confident, courageous, fierce, walk like you are six feet tall, walk away from confrontations’, keep your peace, smile, love the haters, have the last laugh, be the bigger person, keep your joy in the midst of a storm?

One Thing Only.

Jesus said to Martha “But one thing is needful: and Mary has chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her” (Luke 10:42)

The time you spend with God in prayer, meditation, worship, exhortation and fellowship will set you apart in life. This is the ONLY way to life an Audacious life!

The revelation, insight, wisdom, knowledge and discernment you’ll walk and operate in shall not be taken away from you. Never!

God will supply you with daily manna, fresh from above. He will anoint you with fresh oil. You will be fruitful in all your ways and your fruit will remain and evidence for all to see. Amen!

“Inner strength is a result of time spent with GOD in prayer, which brings a fresh breath of life and inspiration that injects into you tenacious & audacious power to live & move in prefect stride regardless of the situation or circumstances” – Leke Garuba

Psalm 27:4 – One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in His temple.

As you dwell and seek Him, you will find Him. With joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation. 

Don’t go hours without checking in with the Alpha and Omega, the Ancient of days, and the most High God.There is a frequency especially reserved for you, will you tune in today?

To your audacious self!

Go Big and Bold.

I pray as you read this, the Lord will touch your heart and open your spirit to receive it that the eyes of your understanding may see the hope of His calling for you in 2013.

I have prayed for everyone who will read this post that the power of God will ignite something within you and be propelled into a new season in your life.

I pray that 2013 will be a year like you have never experienced before. Though last year may have been a great year, you’ve never had it this good before.

2013 will be Big and Bold for you. You will ask, and you shall receive it. You will seek, and the Lord will give you double in return. You will be bold as a lion, walk and not be weary. May your inner man be strengthened like never before.

You will operate on a realm never experienced. Time and season will work in your favor. The host of heaven will be on alert to your commands.

This year is about speaking it and receiving it. Go Big and Bold. Be audacious and confident that He who formed and created you got you covered.

He will not only do what you asked for? He will do exceeding abundantly beyond what you’ll ask for or even think!

And why not? He is able. He is not a man, and He does not lie.

He has been faithful in the past, and why shouldn’t we trust, believe, and have faith in Him to do it again?

He will do it again! Do it again, Lord.

If you don’t believe me, kindly pray to God to pass on your portion unto me (hehe). Wait a minute! Remember Jacob and Esau?

You can’t get it back once you pray it over. Your words are powerful and lethal, so be careful.

2013 Will be for you whatsoever you want it to be.

Happy New Year – Go Big and Bold in 2013

Congratulations – Nothing will hold you back in 2013, not even yourself. 

Happy New Year – Happy New You!

 

“Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.” – Les Brown.

Merry Christmas.

Hello Everyone,

It’s that time of the year again that we celebrate the birth of our Lord, Jesus Christ.

This season represents hope, forgiveness, love, and peace. The birth of Christ ushered in the Father’s plan of redemption from all sins.

I pray that you will take advantage of this season and extend good cheer to your friends, families and loved ones.

Choosing to forgive doesn’t make you weak. Rather it shows that you are strong and mature. Forgiveness is not for the other party; it’s for you. Forgiveness is freeing ourselves from baggage and past wounds.

I read a provocating post this week, where a child asked his mom “If Christmas is Jesus’ birthday, why do we get all the gifts? 

We can offer our gifts to Christ by worship, praise, fellowship, praying to Him. There are many ways we can offer gifts to our Savior.

Let us continue to offer our lives to Him as a family and spread the Christmas cheer everywhere we go. Let the light in us shine to the rest of the world and in your area of influence. Let go and Let God.

As we celebrate, please keep in mind others who may not feel optimistic about their current situation. Sometimes we are all the Christ some will ever know. Go out of your way and invite someone over. If you can’t afford to buy a gift, use your time to serve them. Call that friend and tell them how much they mean to you.

As you read this post, know that I have prayed for you and will continue to pray for you. I love you and wish the best for you, but Christ loves you the most.

Merry Christmas from our Family to Yours with Love

I leave with you with this awesome video. 

The Lord Will Remember You.

I had the privilege of sharing my testimony recently. The timing couldn’t have been more perfect. I use the opportunity to encourage others to continue to hold onto God’s promises and never give up. Our God is truly faithful, even when we are not, He’s forever faithful.

This time of the year for many people is about celebrating the birth of Christ, shopping for Christmas presents, and for many others a time of sadness.

Years back I belonged in the category of those whose Christmas was a time of sadness. It signifies the end of another year whereby my hopes and dreams were not realized. What is there to be joyful about? What is there to look forward to?

I really had to dig deep to find the strength and encourage myself in the Lord that the upcoming new year will be better and greater.

Job 8:7 ~ Even though you’re not much right now, you’ll end up better than ever. (MSG)

The best way I’ve found to encourage myself in the Lord is by finding myself in the bible.

To all my sisters in waiting
 this time of the year can be tough on you. 
And the Lord remembered Hannah and it came to pass that she conceived and gave birth to Samuel.
 Then God remembered Rachel: she also gave birth to Joseph and Benjamin.
 God has not forgotten you and it shall come to pass for you too.


Just as the Lord favored Ruth with Boaz, He will send your Boaz to make provision, be a protector, an intercessor, and a covering. Just like Esther: you will obtain grace and favor with God and man. He will give you beauty for ashes and  
the oil of joy for mourning
, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness. Every tear shall turn to joy and shouts of praise will fill your mouth, amen.

So regardless of how things are today, have faith in God and don’t give up. Don’t focus on what you can see, focus on what you want to see. The things that you see are temporal, pray and hold on until you see what you’ve been praying for.

It is closer than you think, God is setting things up right now. Everything will work out for your own good. Just believe and trust God will do it for you.

Wishing you a Blessed Christmas and a joy-filled New Year ahead. Remember Jesus is the reason for the season